It is tough to talk about relationships.. Most of us are scared of it at some point. But we may want it badly too at times. May be it is not about wanting a relationship or wanting to find love. It is the want of a successful relationship, a love that is cherished and most importantly returned. Success is important to us.. in everything :)
Modern day attitude towards love is all about ‘the right fit’ and less about ‘let’s figure it out together’. Not surprising that most relationships that exist are based out of convenience. “I want to settle closer to town because that means less travel to work”. “This guy may be right for me NOW.” Fewer people are thinking about ‘always’ and leaning more towards ‘now’. Has love become a momentary thing? Are people are able to digest the idea of happy forever?
The number of people opting to ''just lets see how this goes for the time being'' has increased. Fewer people are settling down.. settling down much later in life. I do not think that is a bad thing. It is very important to know what you want and when you want. What i do not approve of is people refusing to grow up and own up to their decisions. You can't forever not made up your mind yet. Neither is wanting to be with someone purely based on ''how convenient is this as of now''.
Modern day attitude towards love is all about ‘the right fit’ and less about ‘let’s figure it out together’. Not surprising that most relationships that exist are based out of convenience. “I want to settle closer to town because that means less travel to work”. “This guy may be right for me NOW.” Fewer people are thinking about ‘always’ and leaning more towards ‘now’. Has love become a momentary thing? Are people are able to digest the idea of happy forever?
The number of people opting to ''just lets see how this goes for the time being'' has increased. Fewer people are settling down.. settling down much later in life. I do not think that is a bad thing. It is very important to know what you want and when you want. What i do not approve of is people refusing to grow up and own up to their decisions. You can't forever not made up your mind yet. Neither is wanting to be with someone purely based on ''how convenient is this as of now''.
so true
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